One of my most popular posts has been a guest post about why couples should spent time apart. Google likes it quite a bit. I do too.
I bring this up today because I am more convinced of its truth than ever. I say this as someone who has found the love of his life. My wife is endlessly fascinating to me and there is nobody else I want to be with.
One of the reasons our relationship works so well is because we know how to leave each other alone when necessary. We can be happy apart, which makes us happier together. And the sense of fascination in our relationship is never stronger than when we’ve had some time to ourselves.
Oh, and my ninth anniversary is Saturday! I love you Janette. Always will.